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		By: Judi Adams		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Judi Adams]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 06 May 2011 07:02:24 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Wow...how timely. And how on the money! In a betrayal, trying to figure out &quot;what was my part in it?&quot; and &quot;how did I bring it to me?&quot; and &quot;What do I want instead? Then flip it and become it. As one of my shift-it-coach in-training clients said, looking over her life map, &quot;there&#039;s a little good in every bad&quot;...even in what feels like betrayal. 

Here&#039;s my flip

Hoarding - sharing
Self-acclaiming - recognize talents of others
Tight fisted - belief in abundance
Controlling - managing in confidence
Narrow focus - open to new ideas 
Tight - flexible
Blind - Open to other points of view 
My way or the highway - We all own the road]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Wow&#8230;how timely. And how on the money! In a betrayal, trying to figure out &#8220;what was my part in it?&#8221; and &#8220;how did I bring it to me?&#8221; and &#8220;What do I want instead? Then flip it and become it. As one of my shift-it-coach in-training clients said, looking over her life map, &#8220;there&#8217;s a little good in every bad&#8221;&#8230;even in what feels like betrayal. </p>
<p>Here&#8217;s my flip</p>
<p>Hoarding &#8211; sharing<br />
Self-acclaiming &#8211; recognize talents of others<br />
Tight fisted &#8211; belief in abundance<br />
Controlling &#8211; managing in confidence<br />
Narrow focus &#8211; open to new ideas<br />
Tight &#8211; flexible<br />
Blind &#8211; Open to other points of view<br />
My way or the highway &#8211; We all own the road</p>
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		By: Lilia Lee		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lilia Lee]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 22 Apr 2011 17:26:45 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[I loved this article!
It came at a perfect time. This week I experienced this very experience and, having seen the orphan rescue work in the e-zine bfore, I did it and it helped to move me from &quot;how dare they&quot; energy to understanding of the inner child and what she needed to be soothed.
Thank you Christina for your great work!!!!!!!!!!!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I loved this article!<br />
It came at a perfect time. This week I experienced this very experience and, having seen the orphan rescue work in the e-zine bfore, I did it and it helped to move me from &#8220;how dare they&#8221; energy to understanding of the inner child and what she needed to be soothed.<br />
Thank you Christina for your great work!!!!!!!!!!!</p>
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